Welcome to my First Blog Post of 2023
His Helpmeet
Hello & Welcome
My name is Amelia Iorangi and I am the founder of His Helpmeet. My purpose is to equip women who desire to have a marriage that honours God. I am committed to teaching the uncompromising truths of God's word regarding all areas of marriage. I pray for women and couples to understand their identity in Christ and submit to God’s will and purpose as husband and wife. If you are struggling in your marriage, you are not alone! Don't suffer in silence do something different today. Your marriage is worth saving, your effort to sow into your marriage is not in vain.
An excellent wife is the crown of her husband
Who can find a virtuous wife? For her worth is far above rubies. The heart of her husband safely trusts her;
So he will have no lack of gain. She does him good and not evil. All the days of her life. Proverbs 31:10-12
About His Helpmeet
'And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.' Genesis 2:18
God created a wife to a be a companion to her husband. The same word that is used to describe God as our helper, the Holy Spirit as our helper and our advocate is the same word given to describe the role of a wife. God did not create a wife to be considered a second class citizen or a slave to her husband. Instead a wife is to embrace her gifts and talents, she is to acknowledge and affirm her husband's leadership and has a heart for her marriage to grow according to the word of God. A wife who understands her role and lives it out is what the bible describes as a noble or virtuous wife, both God and her husband recognises her great value.
His Helpmeet was established in 2020 during the healing and reconciliation season of my marriage. It was
founded as an accountability prayer group. It has now
progressed into providing additional support and counsel to wives who are struggling in their marriages. In addition it has also served to help future wives prepare themselves for marriage. There are also marriage events that aim to
strengthen and bring more awareness in overcoming common obstacles for husbands and wives.
With regular online and live marriage workshops I am committed to seeing women and married couples break free from their marital struggles. I am dedicated to delivering biblical content and encouraging the daily application of the word of God. By understanding the order of a Godly marriage many participants have come to fully understand the design of a Godly marriage and the role of a husband and wife that honours and Glorifies God.
Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate
With increasing pressures and private struggles women can rise above their unique situations with the correct biblical understanding. I am a firm believer that no marriage is beyond redemption, God can redeem and restore any marriage that is broken or struggling to survive. My own marriage is a testament to this.
Topics in my previous workshops have included:
'Overcoming the common struggles of a Godly wife'
'Growing in your relationship with God'
'Bringing order to the home'
'Understanding boundaries and exercising self control'
'Dealing with difficult in-laws and realtionships'
'Intimacy in marriage'
'Understanding submission and respect'
'The power of a praying wife'
'When trust is broken in your marriage'
'Healing from infidelity'
'Effective communication and conflict resolution'
'Getting your finances in order'
'Preparing for marriage'
'Courting vs Dating'
'Pursuing purity as a single women'
I have witnessed God move in the hearts of so many women and for many many wives their transformation can influence so many changes in their marriages. I can attest to God’s healing and redemptive power in the lives of many couples who have attended workshops
in the past.
His Helpmeet exists to glorify God as His faithfulness continues to endure forever. Maybe you feel like you are simply surviving in your marriage, or maybe you are facing the unfortunate reality that your marriage is lifeless and loveless or maybe your don't even recognise the person you are sleeping next to -due to misplaced priorities in your marriage. You have arrived on this site not by accident. God still has a plan for your marriage. If you need the support in the season you are in register now to one of our upcoming workshops or marriage events. There are also private counselling services available to you individually or as a couple under the services tab.